Savvy Raj

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Strike a pose

Stir swirl and swivel your passionate self. 

Just dance your heart out!

Savvy

#dancelove #heartspeaks #dancingsouls 

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On Nurturing  2

Parenting: The learnings in the nurturing.

Parenting is a long term learning process. With the first born every parent is going through a variety of emotions and various stages of parenting. It is true as an infant it is entirely on the parents-  be its safety, its cleanliness, understanding its cries for various needs-  all done with so much love and care without prior experience.  As the child grows  so does its mode of expression, tantrums, seeking attention, and the parents learn to cope up with all of it  like experts. Cherubic angels with devilish moods. It’s a 24/ 7 job with full focus. The teacher in the child starts teaching valuable lessons, you may have not come across so far in any university.

You have to constantly learn new techniques with every child. One lesson will not work with the other as they are different individuals teaching you to handle the same issues with various means.

You will be learning new lessons with every stage of their growing up. Infants to toddlers to kids, youngsters to teen agers, Young adults to grown up,men and women, each stage teaches you different lessons.
You will be learning new lessons on changing generations, their changing values,  how to maintain the balance and be a bridge to keep up the tranquility and peace at home. Though every phase has its testing period, it is challenging period when they are in their teens with their  need to balance their inner and outer worlds.  Once you cross that successfully you can enjoy a momentary peace till the next one starts.

Coping up with the the new relations that springs up in their lives, and the need to understand their changing priorities, to accept gracefully  and take the back seat in their life though they remain as ur priority , without regrets. Ability to know the strength of the bond though invisible still remains strong and intact. The list of life lessons the child teaches goes on till the end.

That is the way life has to go on.

And all the while we pride ourselves as parents and that we teach and guide our children!
Who is the real teacher here?

These are a few reflections from my mothers perspectives on Parenting.

There may be many styles of parenting and the nurturing they instill  may be relative to  what they received. There is no foolproof way to successful parenting as success is itself subjective. However the idea of nurturing  abilities and giving space for evolving  helps the  holistic development of individual.On Nurturing

In a nutshell …can think of  5 A’s of Nurturing as parents… but the list never ends .

Acknowledge abilities as uniquely significant.

Appreciate the good qualities & its application.

Allow the potential of  personal expression.

Accept the challenges as part of life

Adapt to changing nature.

What are your views on Parenting and nurturing? Do share.
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Life is as you make it!

Life meets life

Life loves life

Life trusts life

Life births life

Life greets life

Life touches life

Life appreciates life

Life helps life

Life flows with life

Life inspires life

Life connects life!

Life hurts life

Life fears life

Life owns life

Life negates life

Life fights life

Life fools life

Life cheats life

Life hates life

Life fails life

Life takes life.

Life grieves life.

Life cherishes life

Life values life

Life nurtures life

Life goes on … such is the circle of life!

Savvy

 

  Wheel of life.Artwork by Savvy 


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On Giving & Receiving : 2

In the giving we find ourself
In the receiving we understand ourself.

In learning to give and  receive well we learn about our own nature.  How we feel in accepting a gift or compliment or reward or title… For many it is a task that is confusing to say the least especially how to accept a gift in a graceful dignified way.
Even more so however is how we learn to reciprocate what we receive and how to do so.
It truly is about reflecting gratitude . A gift well received is a gift in the truest sense or else it can be perceived in many other ways . How do you receive the gift you are given and how you care to express it back  can make all the difference. Although subjective to the giver and the occasion the way you acknowledge it is very important to the giver.

I remember this incident from my childhood…
Many years ago as a young kid at school,  I used to carefully collect and save my pocket money so as to be able to buy small gifts for my family and friends on their birthdays. I would forgo my little sweet treats at lunch break and put it all in a little purse.

Once it was one of my dear relatives birthday and I managed to joyfully search and  buy a beautiful bracelet, a trinket actually from the saved money and happily gifted it to her. But to my dismay …in a few days she went and exchanged my gift for something else  and I felt a little disappointed  for a while , when she told me casually about it only much later.  But then gradually I let it go and  accepted it as every person is entitled to their own taste of things. And I also felt,  what may appeal to one may not suit the other. To each his or her own ! 

All is a matter of a shift in perspectives. 

 As soon as you adjust the way you see things the so called issues that irk disappear on their own… but the question is are we ready to see beyond the niggling bits.

Lessons in life and living indeed!
A few more reflections on Giving and Receiving


Give with all of your heart 

 whenever and wherever you can 

Because you truly can .

Receive by expressing value 

In  heartfelt appreciation

 of what you have got 

Because it truly matters.

 For then in the giving and receiving 

 Is established a full circle 

of a contented connection.

And that will pave the path of grace

For more to follow along.


Give generously without any expectaion 

Receive generously in true appreciation.

Both are core of human nature in action.

And all is well in the circle of  interconnection.


When you give heartfully forget about it.

When you receive gratefully, remember it 

Savvy 

 
Tell me have you ever had a similar experience  
What do you think about it ?  How would you feel if your gift was exchanged… or have you exchanged a gift for another?

Would love to hear from you, do share your thoughts…

Savvy 

 

 

 


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On giving and receiving.

 

When one shares from the heart, the result is always a regeneration of trust confidence and love in abundance.

With increasing love there is a decrease of needs and with that there is greater contentment and fulfillment!   

 A few things to keep in mind are… share without motive, share without ego, share with gratitude! 

The ones who share with acceptance writ  in their hearts are the ones who know the value of letting go enough to reaps its rewards.

Rewards that cannot be measured by time or days, as they abound in the infinite wisdom of conscious connections!

In the spirit of the Season you can join the dance of life in this now with all your heart and soul. And partake the pleasures of being there in both the receiving and the giving.

Savvy Raj