The ground truths of any relationship in time..
Two ways of thinking….
Familiarity breeds contempt
While the absence makes the heart fonder.
One…
All seems wonderful in the beginning
As time goes by time takes its toll.
Straining the togetherness
Cracking apart at its seams
Creating distances and gaps that grow
Making the memories sustain in hope
Or seek a closure in forgetfulness.
Two…
In isolation and silence
Seeds of thoughts find time to germinate
In both exclusion or seclusion
The heart longs for companionship
The thoughts turn to fond remembrances
Of bygone memories of the good times
Life tries to recall & recreate those times.
To salvage what is left and cherish
Knowing the priceless treasures it brings.
Hence the absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Life moves on and finds new beginnings
Yet in adaptability & flexibility
Nature continues its pathway
All comes a full circle.
Such is the circle of life.
Savvy
Savvy Raj 
June 12, 2021 at 11:56 pm
“Familiarity breeds contempt While
the absence makes the heart fonder”
Change Nature of Reality At Play
Interestingly Some Folks Have
‘Default Systems’
Of Mind That
Are Lower in ‘Latent
Inhibition’ Which Means
The World Always Looks New
To Them More As A Child of Wonder With SMiLinG
Joy Coming Into A New Awesome World of Beauty Now
While There Will Be Greater Freer Associations And Creativity
With This Unusual Way of Human Being Sadly It Is Often Associated
With Mental Imbalances As One May Often Get Lost in Hypo Frontality
Where Creativity
Thrives
Hard
To Come
Back to Reason
Of Logical Working Mind
More Frontal Cortex as such
Hypo Meaning Dampening Our
Logical Approach to Life Where Life
Becomes More Art Than Reason It is
Often those Blessed With More So-Called
Standard IQ That Are Able to Ground Themselves
Back Out of All the Colors Anew That Spring Forth in
Every Environmental Season of Ever Changing Weather Feeling Sensing
Within So How
Does
This
Relate to
‘Familiarity
Breeds Contempt’ Now
It’s Hard to Get Bored of
Your Wife When You See
A Brand New Work of Art
Every Now of Your Life
Hehe Not Sure
If She Sees
me the
Same Way
Yet it surely Makes
it easy to End Each Night
With a Hug the Only Advice Her
Mother Gave to Us On Our Wedding
Day on February 21st, 1990 When You
Were Probably A Very Small Girl Dear Savvy
On the Autism Spectrum This Made it Very Difficult
For Me to Handle New Environments With Lots of People’s
Feelings All Around me And All the Stimulus Technology Advancing Brings
So Much Easier Now Retired As All i Have to Focus on is Dance And Song
Of Free Verse Life in Both Poetry And Dance And Of Course Seeing my
Wife More Beautiful Each And Every Day Like Every Flower i Come Across With SMiLes…
Hehe, When i Used to Work in a Bowling Center Handing Out Shoes For Almost Two Decades
As Quite Honestly That’s All My Super Charged Feelings And Senses Could Handle in life then
After Earning Three College Degrees People Asked How can you Be So Happy Working Here
For All These Years the Answer is Simple Every Human is Flower Ever Changing UNiVeRSE
to Meet
And
Greet
With A
SMiLE That
Feels More
Colorful Every Day
True There is A UNiVeRSE
Within Much Greater Than
‘Science’ Will Ever Feel and Sense my FRiEnD..:)
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