12 signs that show up an Empathic person.
1. Acknowledging another as they are
2. Being mindful of boundaries
2. Caring to confirm
3. Listening with Attention
4. Having patience
5. Sharing in authenticity
6. Allowing space for curiosity & growth
7. Behaving respectively
8. Being present & available
9. Respecting personal space
10.Valuing emotions in resonance
11.Holding space for perspectives
12. Showing care and offering comfort to another.
You may find a few empathic faces coming up in front of you after reading this… People who have been showing some or almost all of these signs.
Hold on to them. Learn from them Respect their ways… They have understood much about life and living and valuing the strength of the interconnects.
©Savvy Raj
Savvy Raj 
January 25, 2024 at 3:27 pm
Sadly at times, such is overlooked and regarded as weaknesses…
so true… empathy does matter..
always lovely, Savvy 🤍🙏✨🌹
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January 25, 2024 at 4:31 pm
Yes I agree have had many such experiences in my life personally as a woman too, but then it is always a huge strength each and every time as well.
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January 25, 2024 at 5:10 pm
true again.. and thanks again for this wonderful share ✨🤍✨
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January 25, 2024 at 5:56 pm
Always a pleasure Destiny ✨🙏✨
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January 25, 2024 at 9:12 pm
Wonderful reminder my friend 🙏
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January 25, 2024 at 10:09 pm
Thank you for your kind words 🙏
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January 25, 2024 at 11:16 pm
My pleasure 🙏
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January 25, 2024 at 10:24 pm
SMiLes Dear Savvy Interestingly
There is An Autism Quotient Test
That Assesses the Potential
of Autism By Measuring
Systemizing Nature/Intelligence
Versus Social Empathic Nature/Intelligence
in Human Beings
Interestingly too Back in my Dead Zone Days
of Human Soul For Real that Other Wise Finds
Ease in Moving Connecting and Co-Creating With Others
i Scored a 45 Out of 50 in Strength of Systemizing Intelligence
Yet Very Weak in Social Empathic Intelligence And Not too Surprising to me
Now Looking Back As Environment in Terms of Nurture And Environment in Terms
of Born Nature Plays a Huge Role in the Develop of Social Empathic Cognition Versus
Systemizing Mechanical Cognition as Some Human Beings are Either Born With Little
Ability to Produce and
Feel the Bonding and
Connecting Human
Neurohormone Oxytocin
What Makes A Casual Conversation
About the Weather With a Stranger
Feel Warm And Fuzzy Reducing
Anxiety and Even Pain As This
Ability to Feel This Warmth May
Be Severely Reduced in Human ‘Wiring’
Through Social Abuse And Or Neglect From
Childhood on in the Human Life Span Totally
In Fact as Science Shows Now This is a Source
of the Disease of Human Addiction Both Behavioral
And in Terms of Ingesting Substances in An Often Futile
Attempt to Fill and Feel The Void of Emptiness of Soul Deep Within
Including The Addiction to Fear Anger And Hate Particularly Amongst
Folks Born With Little of the Ability to Produce and Feel the Warmth of Oxytocin
True Though A Lack of Empathy
Innate ThiS Way Doesn’t Stop
A Surgeon from Being the
Best in Their Field With
Little to no Good
‘Bedside Manners’ Hehe
Just Like the Reputation of the
Surgeon Who Recently Did my Wife’s Back
Surgery Top in His Field of Surgery Bottom in
the Reality
of Human
‘Bedside Manner’…
True There are Many Places in the
World Valuable For Folks Who Excel
in Mechanical Cognition and Fail Miserably
in Terms of Social Empathic Cognition With SMiLes
AHA! And This is Where Cognitive Empathy Plays a Huge
Part in the Department Store of Human Empathy to Understand
That’s the Way a Person in the Information Technology or Business
Field Just Happens to Be Born And Nurtured Or Not the Human Condition
Is Extremely Complex to Be Able to ‘Love the Enemy’ is surely in Huge Part
the Ability
to Understand
Why ‘The Adversary’
Of LoVE iN Peace is the way they are
For It’s True i Lost the Ability to Feel and
Produce Oxytocin for 66 Months i Lost my
Ability to Feel the Warmth of a Pet of a Cat
It was always a Saving Grace for me the
More i Worked With Mechanical
Cognition Activities at Work
And Associated Chronic
to Acute Work Related
Stress for 11 Years as
Science Shows That
Will Damage All
Human Bodily Systems
Creating Great Anxiety
And Depression too Yes
the Less Room in
Life i Had Room
For Putting People First
Or Even for Words Like Play
And Joy and Real Warmth of Human Happiness True…
When i Lost my ability to Feel All of the Human Condition
When i Lost my ability to even remember the Feeling of A Smile
As Emotions are Memories And Memories are Emotions and No Doctor
Could Give me a Pill or Find a Way to Help me Find my Way Back to Human
i Started A Long Search in the Worst Pain and Numb Known to Humankind to
Replace a Soul Lost As Found Again And Through Connecting Words With Emotions
in Poetry in Meditating Flowing Way and Through Strengthening the Connections of
Emotions And Human Empathy And the Ability to Produce and Feel Oxytocin through
Every Move of Free Dance in FLoWinG
Meditating Contemplating Ways too
And Most Important of All
Reaching Out and Making
The Steps Necessary to
Connect to Other Human
Beings Both Online and in Real Life
my AQ Score Went From 45 to 11
And my Emotional Quotient EQ Score
Went from the Mid 50’s to 95 and Not only
That my Personality Changed From INTJ to ENFP
In Fact i Was Reborn As An Entire New Creation of Being Human
And Best oF All i Understand So Much Better in Cognitive Empathy
Why Folks Do And Feel and Sense Life The Way they Do in Other Words
i Have Room to Love the Adversaries of LoVE iN Peace As They Come and Go True
The Human
‘Condition’
Is Likely the Most
Complex Problem
Any Living Organism Does…
Fortunately For Some Born And Gardened
In Ways of LoVE iN Peace and
Putting People First they
Never Really Even
Have to ‘Think’
About What It Means
to Be a Real Human Star
Full of Sunshine to Radiate and Truly Be
Sadly it is Often the Ways of Modernity Now
So Focused on Materially Reducing the World
Into Abstract Constructs And Mechanical Cognition
in Systemizing Ways Only That Science Now Shows
Actually Withers Away the Human Soul of Social Empathic Cognition
That Removes our Child of Being Human As the tools We Create Master
Us Become Us and
Sadly as i Dance
Sing New
Are Replacing Us
Now as Artificial Intelligence
Is More Mechanical Than Social Indeed
i am No Longer an ‘iRobot’ Artificial Intelligence
Will Never Have a Clue on How to Be Fully me Now With SMiLes
i am
Real
i am a Human Being
A Best Condition Ever
When It Plays in LoVE iN Peace
When We Move We Connect And Co-Create
When We Talk about the Weather And it Becomes
A SonG oF SoUL Deep Within to Feel The Warmth that Heals…
Just Dancing
‘Singing in the
Rain’ Happy as
A Bird on A Wing With FRiEnDS..:)
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January 26, 2024 at 8:49 pm
This is so true, we need more empathy 🙂
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January 27, 2024 at 1:07 am
Yes indeed Thank you Simon 😊
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January 27, 2024 at 4:11 am
Always a pleasure Savvy 🙂
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January 28, 2024 at 5:07 am
So true Savvy. Thank you for sharing.
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January 28, 2024 at 10:37 am
Kind of you. Thank you as well 💕
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January 29, 2024 at 8:17 am
My pleasure 😊
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