Savvy Raj

Live Life Lovingly!

Self Management


10 Life Skills that you need to master.

1. Managing Changes

Change management is an important component of life skills. Often loneliness is felt at different phases of life
Overcome the fear of being alone. Life teaches many challenging lessons. But most of all know that nothing is permanent Change is the order of nature And if you ever find yourself at crossroads feeling deserted lonely or lost without any loved one , fear not, as there are many who may be feeling so amidst company.
Develop hobbies and a sense of purpose that you are passionate about. And you will never feel alone a single moment in your life .

2 Art of patience:
Everything has a time and reason. Like nature teaches us time and time again, nothing can be hurried without a repercussion. And all comes in course of time.

Cultivating Patience is the key to mastering burden of procarasitation by others.

3 Letting go . Let past go and do not dwell on it. Work to balance the holding back & the letting go with discretion and discernment.

4 Managing Expectations
The world does not owe you anything infact you owe it much.Managing people’s expectations  and your own  requires some clear boundary setting by you for your own sanity. Dont expect immediate results and ease up to master expectations.

5 People Management

All cannot be pleased by you and neither should you try pleasing all. Managing Self involves learning to say no when you feel it deeply. You cannot live a life pleasing others . Putting your health and self care on priority is a duty to the life within you. You have every right to be happy and healthy. Self care is never a selfish act.

6 Self Control & Self Discipline

Both help and aid you to progress towards Self control than to control all around you. You may not be able to control everything and every one’s behavior. But remember you are completely in charge of your own behavior.

7 Empathy :

Empathise with your problems but there is no need to over sympathize and feel sorry for your yourself. Accept that you may have emotionally weak moments which may drain you but know it moves on. So you dont need to stay there in your thoughts hurting yourself.
You may feel and go through bouts of tears envy anger jealousy and they can be at times to heal you through or counter productive for you depending on the intensity but these self pitying moments in your thoughts come as you are only human, but you have free will and intention on your side and it is duty and right, for you owe to yourself to let these go as they came and not drown yourself with these thoughts. So pull out yourself out of the down spiralling thought road.

8 Responsibility :

Being responsible includes making an effort to finish work entrusted in a timely manner as well as in an efficient manner. Strive to improve your potential. Know where, why, when, how and for what to use your own personal energy and strengthen yourself engaging and involving in worthwhile company and causes.

9 Moderation :

Moderation in behaviour
Your thoughts result in actions
Strive to cultivate a balanced approach in extreme circumstances which may seem truly challenging.
Express your opinions tactfully address the situation mindfully & he(artfully) as you integrate the wisdom of the heart and mind conciousness.

10 Resilience

Life is different for each of us. So move ahead knowing that every day challenges come for a reason that is best not revealed now . Have faith hope belief and trust in your being. There is always a reason why things happen the way they do . Do not give up hope in your failures as they are harbringers of hope and wisdom to create a more evolved you.

Remember every failure is a step to chisel and sculpt away to a better you.And most of all make your life worth living.



Author: Savvy Raj

Dance Educator, Writer, Artist, Designer, Wellness Mentor & Consultant

7 thoughts on “Self Management

  1. Great post ✌️…..yes ✨Life is to thrive, not to survive.😇🌹

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  2. Ah Yes Dear Savvy A Path to Inner Success

    So Far Away From Just A “Matter With Things”

    All Great Advice You Provide For Managing the

    Inner World to Actually Thrive Alive Indeed What

    i Find in Life

    Is A Life Neglecting

    Mastery of Soul Within

    is A Life Lost From the Nature

    of Who We Even Are as Humanity Whole

    Balancing Mind Body Heart SPiRiT SoUL Newly

    Integrating the Whole Mystically Contemplating

    Reality Putting Together Life More Now Than Taking it Apart

    And Losing Pieces More Like a ‘Humpty Dumpty’ Life Indeed

    So Afraid


    on Egg Shells

    Pieces of Existence That Way
    And Only ‘Pieces of Eight’ Indeed..:)

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    • It certainly helps in piecing existence to make a life worth living.

      Liked by 1 person

      • SMiles Yes It Is Surely
        True Dear Savvy Seeing
        Forest Not only Trees
        Ironically Too Much
        Order In Labeling
        And Focusing on
        Details May
        Take Art
        Away in
        From smART
        heART And EartH
        Never The Less Labeling
        Order And Ego in Process
        Of Order Is Necessary For
        Large Heterogeneous
        Societies To Function
        With Laws in
        Both Yin
        Both In Focus
        Of Details And Whole

        At Both Group And Individual
        Level Lest The ‘Predator’ Misses
        The ‘Prey’ in Focus OR The Other Predator on The



        Is Eaten
        Whole Not
        Unlike Focusing
        On Texting When
        Driving And Missing
        The Train Coming Toward

        Us In
        Nearer my FRiEnD 🚂

        Modern Science Shows
        Integration of Left Hemisphere
        Grasping Trees And Right


        The Forest


        For Successful

        Yang And Yin

        Balance Ironically
        Science Must Gain

        Free Wings To See Whole

        Just Like Humans And
        Cultures Trapped in

        More Isolating
        Left Hemisphere



        Reasons We Label

        Lost From Potential

        Globally by Minds

        And Worlds
        🧠 🌍 🌎 🌏 🌌

        Below So

        All Around☺️🏝🙏

        SMiles Dear Savvy it’s
        Like Dancing With A
        Small Towel Becoming
        The Weight of
        The Towel


        With Gravity

        Balancing All
        Peace And Harmony
        Sprouting “Living Life


        Trees Of Life
        Forest Whole SMiles😊🙏


  3. There is an inner peace and beauty when one cultivates the harmony of soul and spirit. Thank you for sharing this reminder!

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