Savvy Raj

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How to manage a difficult conversation?

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In the course of my career over the years handling teams of various departments, people management  became my forte while experiencing many instances which needed agility in communication.

Here are few pointers…

If you can help it thoroughly prepare yourself  with research so that you are prepared to handle any objections well.

Try to choose when and where to have a difficult conversation.

Always start with a positive mindset and speak with concern without blaming .

Make sure you are clear about what you want to communicate.  And deliver your stance  clearly  without any ambiguity.

Speak in the right tone as per the situation.

Listen actively well to acknowledge  emotions and  understand so you can respond than react.

If there is too much tension or another impasse it is alright to pause, take a  short timely break to diffuse tension and then recoup

Be focussed on what you wish to communicate and steer the conversation if it veers off topic.

Be open to alternatives and  perspectives and see if you can  find common ground to stay flexible to foster collaboration.

Resolve issues find win win solutions & clear issues.

Do you remember  any instances of  difficult  conversations you have had? How did you manage it?

Savvy

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Author: Savvy Raj

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3 thoughts on “How to manage a difficult conversation?

  1. katiemiafrederick's avatar

    All Great Advice for Handling
    Challenging Conversations
    Dear Savvy Of Course Yes

    Dealing With Administration
    Management and Supervision
    of Programs and Many Folks and
    Even Breaking up Arguments and

    Fights Among Drunken Folks in
    Places of Customer Service i’ve

    Surely Had my Share What it
    Takes is Calm Demeanor
    Logical Approach With

    The Ability for
    Kindness too
    With Understanding
    How Very Different Humans
    View Their MuLTiUNiVerses of Life

    Rarely Do i Come across Difficult People
    And Conversations Now Yet it Just So Happens
    Hehe that it happened Tonight as Basically for Metaphor

    Someone Was Trying
    to Convince me
    The Sky Wasn’t
    Blue While Using
    An Alternate Color that
    Could Literally Harm Millions
    of Marginalized Human Beings

    From Children to the Very Old Truly
    A Mixed-Up Outlook on the Color of the Sky

    i Basically
    Gave the
    Condition the
    Human one Credit
    for the Incident it isn’t

    Always Very Rational at all…

    Particularly When Folks Live
    in Echo Chambers of the Most

    Harmful
    Lies that
    Do Harm
    the Marginalized
    Among Us So Vulnerable
    Indeed Yet of Course those
    Who Live in Ignorance are

    Are Often Used
    As Minions
    For Abuse

    Yet it is what it is
    Not Wasting my Energy
    in Getting Angry Yet i Wont
    Agree With What Harms Other Human

    Beings
    Not Now
    or ever now

    Making my
    View Clear

    Yet Leaving
    Room for the
    Condition of
    The ‘Condition’

    to Do Its ‘Thing’…

    And Moving On to Enjoy
    Clear Blue Skies of Another
    Peaceful Day

    Springing
    Like a
    Fountain
    oF Love Free
    Far Away From
    Very Dangerous
    Spoon-Fed ‘Group Think’…

    All We Can Really Do is Provide

    A Different
    And Rarely

    Experienced View
    And Hope For
    Potential
    Positive Change…

    SMiLes in This Case
    Not Likely a Discussion
    Worth Having Again It seems..:)

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