Who is our type?
Why does our brain become immediately choosy, including some as ours and excluding some as others?
What makes some our type?
When we meet and connect with a new face, what is it that immediately draws or repels?
Is there more to it, than first impressions, communication skills or body language?
Does our brain genetically program itself to select on auto pilot?
For we often classify and categorize subconsciously as a way of choices we make.
Who is our tribe?
Who is outside ?
We are hardwired
With the safety metric.
Our mirror neurons simulate
emotional states of being
in others we meet.
When inner rhythm sense resonance
there is a instant vibe
aligning us in a circle of unsaid understanding.
Such pattern recognition is primitive,
a tool for survival
for flagging safe and unsafe connection.
A lot happens in a split second …
A combination of sorting
Processing the past connects
Sensing and interpreting
Gut feeling & intuition
Simplifying complex somatic movements markers.
In recognizing the effortless ease and comfort
Or the discord that creates repulsion.
Categorizing a stranger
Is a matter of survival…
Would u agree?
Savvy
September 22, 2026 at 6:42 pm
Agree 100%
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September 23, 2026 at 8:18 am
🙏
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September 22, 2026 at 11:34 pm
Nice one
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September 23, 2026 at 8:17 am
Thank you 😇
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September 23, 2026 at 8:42 am
You’re welcome 🙂
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September 22, 2026 at 11:41 pm
SMiLes Dear Savvy What i find Most about
A Stranger is if i make the Effort to connect
FRiEnDLY
Most often
They are No Longer
a Stranger of Course
Mileage Varies with this
Yes Depending on Make
and Model of being Human
It’s Much Different when
a 250 Pound Dude who still
Leg Presses 1540 pounds 12 Reps at 66
Most often mistaken for Military or Law Enforcement
Reaches a Hand Out Instead of a closed
Fist to a Stranger
than a small
Woman
Walking
to Her Car at Night
Indeed at best they
move as fast as they
can and Lock the Door Behind them
as indeed Nature is Nature they will
Never Feel as safe as i do in a Dark Parking Lot
Or Perhaps
hehe i have
a false sense of
security as i am
Yet to move faster
Than a Speeding Bullet
or Jump Tall Buildings with one Leap
Overall the best defense is Moving confidently
With Respect and Kindness for the Stranger as it’s true
We All Have Biases based on our Experiences of Life as We Do
Tend to Categorize other Human Beings that way with potential
Intuitive biases too i’ve surely done it too Yet totally surprised how
Different
People come to
be when i make
the First Move
of Kindness
with an Outreached
Hand and Smile of Welcome
Yet again We Are Human Mileage
Varies depending on so many factors…
On the Other Hand my ability to discern
‘Con-People’ has Proven effective with what
Nature
And Experience
Brings So very Fortunately
No longer a Cog in that buy and sell World..:)
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September 23, 2026 at 8:17 am
We are naturally programmed with bias to survive, our flight or fight mode kicks in to safeguard us. Yet it is the very same mode that creates stress and pressure when its imbalanced . Our discernment of situations and circumstances that stems from awareness creates space for understanding more. In conscious practices of equanimity, many unnecessary biases and prejudices settle in time. Yet we are only human the instinct to survive the odds is a safeguard that is inevitable.
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September 23, 2026 at 10:42 am
Indeed i agree☺️🙏
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