Savvy Raj

Live Life Lovingly!

It’s all in you to change.

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A story share

A young girl was studying in a school.

She hadn’t been to school for four days because she was not feeling well.

When she went back to school, there were a lot of lessons taught.

To catch up on the lessons, she asked her best friend for her notes.

But her friend refused to give her the notes, saying she had to study them that evening.

Feeling dejected, she couldn’t get the notes copied.

Another girl came to her aid and gave her the notes, helping her out.

The girl was heartbroken that her best friend didn’t help her. She remembered all the times she had given chocolates and colored pencils to her friend.

Reflecting on this, she felt extremely sad and cried, becoming obsessed with the thought.

“Obsessed” means thinking about something repeatedly. She couldn’t stop thinking about her friend not giving her the notes.

She couldn’t eat lunch properly, came home, and sat quietly.

She couldn’t talk properly, watch TV, or laugh. She couldn’t sleep that night, thinking about it all the time. The next day was a school holiday, but she couldn’t enjoy it.

That day, her family went to a park. Her father put her on a swing and started pushing her. The swing went higher and higher, making her happy. She screamed joyfully, asking her dad not to push too hard. Her dad kept pushing, and after half an hour on the swing, she got down and played more games.

She forgot her anger and sadness towards her friend, feeling at peace.

That night, while sleeping, she reflected on the following points:

Point 1: It was wrong of her friend not to give her the notes. Why should she lose her happiness, appetite, and laughter over it?

Point 2: Maybe her friend genuinely needed to study and couldn’t give her the notes.

Point 3: Being angry at her friend made her distance herself from her loving parents.

Point 4: Constantly thinking about anger and irritation towards someone is torturous. It prevents us from doing anything else.

Point 5: Why didn’t she try to forget her anger for even five minutes? She felt excited while on the swing and forgot her anger. Why didn’t she think about getting out of the problem?

Reflecting on these points, she reached a conclusion.

Thinking negatively about anyone all the time will prevent you from being at peace. It drains our energy and makes us unable to enjoy life. Therefore, she decided to stay friendly and cheerful.

She woke up energetically,
greeted her parents,
took a bath and wore her uniform,
ate her breakfast, packed her bag,
and as she stepped out, sunlight shone on her face.

Her face looked brighter and more beautiful in the sunlight.

When our thoughts are good, our actions will be good. When our actions are good, our life will be good.

A tamil story translated by AI

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Author: Savvy Raj

Dance Educator, Writer, Artist, Designer, Wellness Mentor & Consultant

One thought on “It’s all in you to change.

  1. katiemiafrederick's avatar

    Now Constantly Changes
    into A New Creation That
    We All Participate in NeW
    ThiS WaY

    True

    Dear Savvy
    Yet Also True
    To Get Lost in the Past
    Rife With Regret or to

    Fall Deep into Fears Over Futures

    Is A Highway Far Away For Reaching Free
    So Many More Years of Our Human Potentials

    In FAct iN Change For Every Breath We Take

    iNHaLinG Peace
    ExhaLinG LoVE

    Our Guiding Star
    Breathes Within ThiS WaY

    Up to Us to Wake Up

    Moving Connecting

    Co-Creating

    Mapping

    Our Realities
    Evermorenewinnow….

    This Too Shall PaSS AWaY
    Yet LoVE iN Peace Endures

    NeW
    No
    Matter
    Yesternow
    Or Tomorrownow
    Unfolding Now Yes
    NeW Is Always Change

    Our Essence For Real

    It Seems At Best

    iNHaLinG

    Peace

    Exhaling
    LoVE iN JoY oF NoW..:)

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