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On Conflict Resolutions

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Building bridges of understanding 

Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding”. Dale Carnegie

Have you managed and resolved conflicts in virtual teams? If so, you will agree on how much communication matters in building bridges of understanding.

On Virtual Conflict Resolutions

Conflicts and its resolution are part of teams dynamics. An empathic approach to that is inclusive, non-judgemental, proactive  and  open to establishing safe discussion spaces creates positive outcomes in virtual scenarios.

In virtual team management  scenario, it is important to define and understand what matters to each person or team to find the path forward. Creating a mutual connection virtually  bridges over misunderstanding, encourages trust and strengthens relationships, leading to positive communication.

Being objective, mindful and  awareof unconscious biases that influence perception helps create a roadmap towards resolutions.

What are your challenges in managing virtual conflicts?

How do you resolve them? Do  share your perspectives.

©Savvy Raj

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Author: Savvy Raj

Dance Educator, Writer, Artist, Designer, Wellness Mentor & Consultant

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  1. katiemiafrederick's avatar

    SMiLes Dear Savvy ‘The Human Condition’

    Particularly Today So Heterogenous in Multi-Cultural

    Distractions More Difficult to Navigate For Mutual And

    Consensual Understandings Than Ever Before And Of Course

    Hehe add the
    ‘Virtual Handicap’

    of Online When

    Text Communication
    Has the Limited Potential
    of Only Expressing About
    7 Percent of What Flesh and

    Blood Full Communication Face to
    Face Moving Connecting and Co-Creating

    Brings
    to Fruition
    So Much More

    Fully Human For Real

    And Of Course the Modern
    Neuroscience Studies that Show
    Humans Basically Hallucinate Their
    Realities on the “Hallucinatory Stories”

    They Create From Their Unique Realities
    of Before They Do Attempt to Mutually and

    Consensually Relate Now Yet Of Course Not Everyone

    Reads 20 Times Faster than the Average Human or Has
    3 Degrees in Areas of Anthropology Social Sciences Interdisciplinary
    And Health Science Directly Communicating Face to Face in Both a Military
    And Civilian Environment in Literally Hundreds of Thousands of Interactions

    Over a Quarter of a Century and All the Quarter of A Century Before That in
    Schools and Other Work Including around the Same in Close to 14 Years Living

    Online as Well as Offline With the Addition of Public Dancing Coming into Contact With
    Thousands Upon Thousands of Folks in a Metro Area of Around 600,000 Folks including Various
    Denominations of Churches And Religions across the Globe Online of Course too And as Far As Managing and Supervising Folks Administrating Programs and Financially Managing the Same
    in an Organization of Around

    131 Folks too

    in the Last
    Part of that
    Working Career too…

    Whenever i meet Someone
    New or Come into a New Group
    of Humans In the Wild Or More

    Organized Group Effort i Understand
    The Almost Unlimited Potentials for

    Both Understanding More of the
    Human Condition Or What is Blind to

    The Potential in Ignorance of Simply

    Not Viewing As Much of the

    Human Potential Up

    Close and Personal

    And Sure Professional
    And Re-Creational too

    i Exercise the Patience of the
    Child With Eyes Wide Open
    in Wonder and Awe of All the

    Changing Environment of Reality in Play

    And Continue to Be Only The Beginner i am

    Just Waiting to Learn From a Different View Whether

    Larger Or Clouded By Ignorance of Not Having the Same
    Advantages in Both Nature and Nurture i’ve Experienced in Life

    So When Someone Tells me Something that’s Obviously Not True

    i’m Patient Holding Their Hands Helping them to see at Least a Slightly Larger

    View of
    What i CuRRenTLY

    See and Continue

    to Learn More

    From Them

    As There is Only Us in We

    In Other Words It’s a Continuing
    Art Full of Intuition and often Far

    Beyond What Any Scientist might Describe As Reason

    Yet it is Always A Challenging Adventure to me as Human

    Is My
    Favorite
    Activity
    to Participate in For Real

    Without Regard to Any Name
    Title Pay Grade Pay Rate or Currency

    Other

    Than Striving
    in the Activity

    of Inhaling Peace
    Exhaling Love as

    LoVE iN Peace Becomes
    The Rainbow Unto What i Do…

    Together
    At Best For Real…

    Yet it is Obviously True too mY FRiEnD
    Poetically Responding to Folks all Around
    the Globe in 13.4 MiLLioN Words of A “SonG oF mY
    SoUL” iN EPiC Long Form Free Style That Also Illustrates
    Cultural Changes Longitudinally in Around 130 Thousand Photos

    i’ve Recorded of the Human

    Condition

    Including the
    Rest of Nature
    in 134 Months

    Along with

    The 20,727
    Miles of Public
    Dance in 133 Months too

    It’s Not What Most folks do

    in their Leisure Hours Day by Day
    Month by Month Still Ongoing With SMiLes

    i am Humble Enough to Understand the FoRTuNE of my View…

    To only
    give it
    away for free

    With SMiLes..:)

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