There is always a learning
From every conversation
For it is a dialogue
Not a monologue…
Once I was having a conversation
With a well read corporate lawyer
In the depth of discussion
I casually said,
‘Anyways it’s fine’
And quickly, although polietly he says,
” Mam don’t get me wrong,
It’s not, ‘Anyways but anyway’
I thanked him for sharing without hesitation but in confidence.
While in formal situations of writing or speaking this is the proper way, in casual use of language Anyways works alright as well.
After all its just a matter of speech.
The choice of when to use it so, is yours to know and take…
Anyway now, I stand corrected.
I share this so anyone who also says ‘anyways’ in slang can self correct, if they choose to… for there is always room for a little self improvement.
After all…
We are what we learn
We are what we imbibe
We are what we share.
To learn is to share and to share is to learn some more.
Savvy
Savvy Raj 
September 20, 2023 at 9:45 am
In a casual conversation, we freely use that, saying ‘Anywaaaaaaaaaaaaaaays’ or something like that, prolonging the last syllable to agree on something or to end a topic and move on to the next one. But of course, in a business conversation (like at work), we hardly use the word. Instead, we use ‘moving forward…’ or ‘moving on…’ if we need to touch on the next topic.
But you are absolutely right, to learn is to share, and to share is to learn some more. And thank you for sharing this. 😊
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September 20, 2023 at 9:58 am
Exactly Adelheid. Casual conversations are meant to ease up & converse lightly and be enjoyable. 😊
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September 20, 2023 at 12:08 pm
SMiLes Dear Savvy Communication Always
Evolves Some Wish to Stay With Established
Order Others Choose to Move On And
Create Anew
Personally
i Enjoy the
Creativity of The
New Whether Casual
Or Attempting to be More
Formal it makes No More Difference
to me than What Fork one Chooses to Eat
Salad
With
Hehe
Nor Do the
Birds Comment
on the Flying Styles
of Other Birds However
True Some Do Fall Behind
And Lose Their Way Relatively Speaking With SMiLes..:)
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September 20, 2023 at 12:31 pm
Totally think likewise my friend but anyway s its a great learning 🙂
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September 20, 2023 at 12:41 pm
Hehe i Would Have
Just Politely Replied
Thank You like i Never
Went to University
Earned Three
Degrees
At Close to
The Top Of The
Class That And 33
Years Of Work Mostly
With The Government
And
All Their Dogmatic Rules
Taught
me A Most
Valuable Lesson
Perfection Destroys
Yet Effortless
Ease Creates
Anew Deep
Within
With
Lasting
SMiles True
Hehe my Next
Words of Wisdom
To Any Corporate Lawyer🤓
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September 20, 2023 at 1:05 pm
Can understand and relate, words that create an effortless ease of understanding connection in casual communication.
As long as words drive the message home… it has served it’s purpose
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September 20, 2023 at 1:12 pm
☺️🙏
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September 20, 2023 at 1:08 pm
Yet again in listening to another speak, helps to get new perspective. 🙏
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September 20, 2023 at 1:18 pm
Ah Yes Dear Savvy
For i Too Used to
Be The Corporate
Lawyer Type too
Described
As Valuable
Commodity
For Solving
Work Related
Issues Yet
Not So
Much Human
What i Lost As
A 5 Year-Old Child
In School
What i Found
At 53 After
Work
Still
Retaining
Humanity
Now At 63☺️🙏
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